While observing recently, my attention was drawn to a
student who was clearly struggling with her assignments. She has a very hard
time reading, and often requires one-on-one instruction, or alternate
assignments. She is not classified as a special education student, nor does she
have a 504 classification. When I asked my cooperating teacher about this
particular student and inquired as to why she does not have an aide, the
teacher told me that she had been trying for months to get extra help and extra
resources for this student. My
cooperating teacher stated that she has been to countless child study team (CST)
meetings. In addition, there have been
numerous phone calls and e-mails back and forth with the student’s parents. It
was my cooperating teacher’s understanding
that the parents felt as though their child was completely fine and that she
was “keeping up with the rest of the class.” In fact, the parents had problems with the idea
of having the teacher give the student an alternate homework assignment, even
though it was clear she could not work on the same assignments as the rest of
the class.
I can understand why
parents would want their child to feel as though he/she were at the same
level as the rest of the students, but why wouldn’t they also want to try and
help their child as much as they can? Parents have the right and the opportunity to
fight for their child so that a child who is struggling can get extra help and
extra resources in class. Apparently these parents are choosing to fight with
the teacher and the school instead.
My question to everyone is this, what do you think the
teacher can do to get the parents on her side? All the teacher wants is for the
student to be able to get the necessary extra help in order to do well in class,
to really learn and to gain confidence.
My cooperating teacher feels as if she always has to defend herself and
her teaching style. Over the past year
as you have been observing, have you noted a problem similar to this one? That is, have you experienced parents who
are reluctant to have their child classified?
Parents who are reluctant to give their child extra help? What did your cooperating teacher do in that
particular situation? How did the CST
handle these parents? And finally, how would you handle these
parents?